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OK, patients are not satisfied with many provider visits. Some people just avoid health care or just complain about it. Consider that mummies have been found who had serious health problems during life. Is that what we want, a postmortem in a thousand years? — “yep, he didn’t get good care”.
It is not the patient’s job to make health care give satisfaction, but that may be what is necessary while we wait for system changes. And yet, many patients currently walk away from a provider visit, the hospital or outpatient surgery feeling satisfied with the care and satisfied their questions were answered. How did they do it? What did they say? Were they just lucky to have the “right” provider? Getting satisfaction currently involves being proactive, doing your homework and speaking up. Those who do are getting some degree of satisfaction.
First, understand the cycle each health care provider works in.
The “agenda” for the visit is made in step #1. Make a list of 3 things you want to get accomplished during the visit and keep the list in hand. Be assertive with the list right after the greeting “Just so I don’t forget I made a list of things I need today: 1)____ 2) ____ 3) ____”. For example, this might be “review my stomach pains, would a specialist help, get prescription refills”. ABSOLUTELY do not wait until step #5 with these questions. Make sure all items were answered by step #3 — if not, look at the list and repeat the items not addressed.
Make step #2 easy. Have an up to date history in hand including past illness, past surgery, current medications and allergies.
Make step #3 understandable. Before the visit research the symptom or known diagnosis on the Internet (like http://www.mayoclinic.com). So when the situation is discussed you have some basis for questions, and ASK THEM.
Make step #4 interactive. As each action is listed if you don’t know what it is (like CBC or CT scan) then speak up “what is that and what will it tell us”. If a procedure or surgery is suggested make sure to understand the top 2 risks and what the provider and you can do to reduce the risk. And, what are the alternatives — understand the alternative of not doing the surgery or procedure. Understand how you will get test results (make it clear you want the result as soon as available whether “normal” or not).
An informed and engaged patient will ask the above questions. Many patients ask such questions. Don’t be demanding, just persistent. Give the provider a chance to do the right thing since most really want to please patients. And, give the provider a second chance. If there is a problem with the plan or medications discovered later, call the provider’s office for clarification. But, repeated failure to respond to these simple questions means it is time to find another provider.
Sometimes people just can’t think clearly knowing a shot, pelvic exam, or prostate check are going to be done. Thinking during a health care visit is essential. So, if there are bothersome aspects to a certain visit ask to have those things done at a separate visit (yes it is more trouble for you but at least you can discuss problems intelligently).